{"id":11058,"date":"2016-02-03T23:39:19","date_gmt":"2016-02-03T22:39:19","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/maimoni.cafeblog.hu\/?p=11058"},"modified":"2016-02-03T23:39:19","modified_gmt":"2016-02-03T22:39:19","slug":"a-sziveddel-valassz","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/sutismoni.hu\/?p=11058","title":{"rendered":"A sz\u00edveddel v\u00e1lassz"},"content":{"rendered":"

Az embert megtan\u00edtja az \u00e9let erre-arra. Olyanokra, hogy a bajban der\u00fcl ki, ki az igazi bar\u00e1t, vagy hogy ne hidd el magadr\u00f3l, hogy p\u00f3tolhatatlan vagy, hogy nem a p\u00e9nzt kell gy\u0171jt\u00f6getni, hanem az \u00e9lm\u00e9nyeket, hogy csak att\u00f3l fogadj el tan\u00e1csot, aki kompetens a probl\u00e9m\u00e1ban, meg ez is, amit a c\u00edmben \u00edrtam: a sz\u00edveddel v\u00e1lassz.<\/p>\n

Elmes\u00e9lek egy t\u00f6rt\u00e9netet.<\/p>\n

N\u00f3ra l\u00e1nyom szeptemberben felk\u00f6lt\u00f6z\u00f6tt Budapestre, a tanulm\u00e1nyait halasztotta, dolgozni akart. Mivel kiv\u00e1l\u00f3an besz\u00e9l angolul \u00e9s franci\u00e1ul, tov\u00e1bb\u00e1 nagyon szeret kisgyerekekkel foglalkozni, egy szegr\u0151l-v\u00e9gr\u0151l ismer\u0151s, \u00e1m rendk\u00edv\u00fcl seg\u00edt\u0151k\u00e9sz valaki beaj\u00e1nlotta \u0151t k\u00e9t angol nyelv\u0171 \u00f3vod\u00e1ba. El is ment mindk\u00e9t helyre interj\u00fara. Az els\u0151 igazi angol gyermeknevelde volt: a gyerekek egyenruh\u00e1ban voltak, a hangulat kiss\u00e9 katon\u00e1snak t\u0171nt. Ott azt mondt\u00e1k N\u00f3rinak, tulajdonk\u00e9ppen holnapt\u00f3l j\u00f6hetne is, h\u00e9tf\u0151t\u0151l p\u00e9ntekig, napi 8 \u00f3r\u00e1ban, \u00e9s viszonylag j\u00f3 fizet\u00e9st is aj\u00e1nlottak neki. Azonban megk\u00e9rt\u00e9k, hogy ne farmerben \u00e9rkezzen, amennyiben \u00fagy d\u00f6nt, hogy ott fog dolgozni: s\u00f6t\u00e9t nadr\u00e1g \u00e9s bl\u00faz az elv\u00e1r\u00e1s.<\/p>\n

Nos, ezek ut\u00e1n ment a m\u00e1sik helyre, egy budai mag\u00e1noviba, ami egyb\u0151l leny\u0171g\u00f6zte. Tetszett neki a hangulata, csal\u00e1dias volt, szeretetteljes, az int\u00e9zm\u00e9ny vezet\u0151je nagyon szimpatikusnak tal\u00e1lta N\u00f3rit, csak h\u00e1t, mint mondta, nekik igaz\u00e1b\u00f3l mind\u00f6ssze egy beugr\u00f3s seg\u00edt\u0151re van sz\u00fcks\u00e9g\u00fck, aki p\u00e9ntekenk\u00e9nt, meg esetleg ha valaki megbetegszik, hadra foghat\u00f3. De nagyon szeretn\u00e9k, ha N\u00f3ri \u0151ket v\u00e1lasztan\u00e1.<\/p>\n

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A k\u00e9p illusztr\u00e1ci\u00f3.<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n

Na, h\u00e1t ekkor h\u00edvott fel benn\u00fcnket, hogy melyik mellett d\u00f6nts\u00f6n. Mert a j\u00f3zan \u00e9sz az els\u0151 helyet dikt\u00e1lja, fix fizet\u00e9s, juttat\u00e1sok, \u00f6sszess\u00e9g\u00e9ben nem rossz, de a hangulat… \u00c9s a m\u00e1sik ovi, az pont olyan, ahol \u0151 dolgozni szeretne! Csak h\u00e1t a p\u00e9nz…ebben az esetben kev\u00e9s lesz, mert csak egy-egy alkalomra veszik \u0151t ig\u00e9nybe, \u00e9s a seg\u00edts\u00e9g\u00fcnkre fog szorulni, mert biztosan nem lesz el\u00e9g a fizet\u00e9s az alb\u00e9rletre, egy\u00e9b k\u00f6lts\u00e9gekre, \u00e9s h\u00e1t nem akar a terh\u00fcnkre lenni.<\/p>\n

Ilyen gyerek ez.<\/p>\n

Nem sokat gondolkodtunk a v\u00e1laszon: azt v\u00e1laszd, ahol j\u00f3l fogod \u00e9rezni magad. A k\u00f6r\u00fclm\u00e9nyek v\u00e1ltozhatnak, emberek j\u00f6nnek-mennek, sokaknak lehet sz\u00fcks\u00e9ge babysitterre, ki tudja, de olyan helyre ne menj, amit\u0151l idegenkedsz. Addig meg seg\u00edt\u00fcnk.<\/p>\n

D\u00f6nt\u00f6tt. A budai mag\u00e1novit v\u00e1lasztotta.<\/p>\n

Elkezdett alkalmank\u00e9nt menni p\u00e1r \u00f3r\u00e1ra. Azt\u00e1n a k\u00f6vetkez\u0151 h\u00e9t v\u00e9g\u00e9n az egyik \u00f3v\u00f3n\u0151 elt\u00f6rte a l\u00e1b\u00e1t (nem mi voltunk!!!) – \u00e9s onnant\u00f3l minden nap mennie kellett. V\u00e9g\u00fcl decemberben m\u00e1s munkahelyre ment egy m\u00e1sik \u00f3v\u00f3n\u0151, \u00e9s a hely\u00e9re felvett\u00e9k N\u00f3rit, kicsivel m\u00e9g t\u00f6bb fizet\u00e9s\u00e9rt, mint amit anno az els\u0151 helyen aj\u00e1nlottak neki. Boldog, nagyon szereti a munkahely\u00e9t, \u00e9s a gyerekek is szeretik \u0151t. Nem utols\u00f3sorban a koll\u00e9g\u00e1i, felettesei is megbecs\u00fclik, kedvesek vele.<\/p>\n

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Ilyen cuki rajzokat kap:)<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n

Mindezzel azt akartam szeml\u00e9ltetni, hogy az ember v\u00e9gezhet sz\u00e1m\u00edt\u00e1sokat, kalkul\u00e1lhat, de nagyon sokszor nem a racion\u00e1lis d\u00f6nt\u00e9st igazolja az \u00e9let. Mert h\u00e1t, tudj\u00e1tok, j\u00f3l csak a sz\u00edv\u00e9vel l\u00e1t az ember.<\/p>\n

Na persze, tiszta sz\u00edvvel.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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