{"id":15486,"date":"2018-04-10T23:59:31","date_gmt":"2018-04-10T21:59:31","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/maimoni.cafeblog.hu\/?p=15486"},"modified":"2018-04-10T23:59:31","modified_gmt":"2018-04-10T21:59:31","slug":"mirol-ismerjuk-meg-ki-a-barat","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/sutismoni.hu\/?p=15486","title":{"rendered":"Mir\u0151l ismerj\u00fck meg, ki a bar\u00e1t?"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Nemr\u00e9g besz\u00e9lgettem valakivel arr\u00f3l, milyen is volt a tavalyi \u00e9v, \u00e9s akkor \u0151 azt mondta, hogy elvesztett egy-k\u00e9t r\u00e9gi bar\u00e1tot, de h\u00e1t nem baj, j\u00f6ttek helyett\u00fck \u00fajak.<\/p>\n<p>Nem sz\u00f3ltam r\u00e1 semmit, de ez a mondat ott motoszk\u00e1lt a fejemben m\u00e9g sok\u00e1ig. Hogy szerintem ez nem \u00edgy van. Bar\u00e1t nem lesz valakib\u0151l egy \u00e9v alatt, nekem ez meggy\u0151z\u0151d\u00e9sem. Kedves ismer\u0151s, j\u00f3 haver, cimbora lehet, \u00e9s azt hiszem, ez a nyelv\u00fcnk hib\u00e1ja, hogy nincs szavunk a haver \u00e9s a bar\u00e1t k\u00f6zti \u00e1llapotra, amikor valaki m\u00e1r t\u00f6bb, mint egy olyan szem\u00e9ly, akivel lehet r\u00f6h\u00f6gcs\u00e9lni, be lehet \u00fclni k\u00e1v\u00e9zni, de m\u00e9g nem bar\u00e1t, mert a kapcsolat nem pr\u00f3b\u00e1ltatott meg az id\u0151ben.<a href=\"https:\/\/maimoni.cafeblog.hu\/files\/2018\/04\/baratsag2.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-large wp-image-15492\" src=\"https:\/\/maimoni.cafeblog.hu\/files\/2018\/04\/baratsag2-600x399.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"600\" height=\"399\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>Mert id\u0151 kell ahhoz, hogy kider\u00fclj\u00f6n, hogyan viselkedik az illet\u0151 veled szemben akkor, amikor a sorsod rosszra fordul; neh\u00e9zs\u00e9gbe ker\u00fclsz, nincs p\u00e9nzed a k\u00f6z\u00f6s shoppingol\u00e1sra, \u00e9tterembe j\u00e1r\u00e1sra, ne adj&#8217; Isten k\u00e1v\u00e9zni sem tudsz be\u00fclni akkor, amikor szeretn\u00e9l. Az is csak k\u00e9s\u0151bb der\u00fcl ki, hogyan tud viszonyulni hozz\u00e1d a bar\u00e1t jel\u00f6lt akkor, amikor fesz\u00fclts\u00e9g, komolyabb n\u00e9zetelt\u00e9r\u00e9s ad\u00f3dik k\u00f6ztetek: megs\u00e9rt\u0151dik, \u00e9s k\u00e9t h\u00e9tig fel sem veszi a telefont, vagy \u0151 is azon dolgozik, hogy a helyzet miel\u0151bb rendez\u0151dj\u00f6n? Hogyan \u00e1ll hozz\u00e1d, amikor m\u00e1s szid, r\u00e1galmaz, b\u00e1nt t\u00e9ged a h\u00e1tad m\u00f6g\u00f6tt? Megv\u00e9d, vagy elbizonytalanodik, \u00e9s egyet\u00e9rt\u0151en h\u00fcmm\u00f6gni kezd? Meghallgat t\u00e9ged, ha bajod van, vagy ink\u00e1bb mindig az \u0151 probl\u00e9m\u00e1i fontosabbak?<a href=\"https:\/\/maimoni.cafeblog.hu\/files\/2018\/04\/baratsag3.jpeg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-15493 size-large\" src=\"https:\/\/maimoni.cafeblog.hu\/files\/2018\/04\/baratsag3-e1523396658293-600x447.jpeg\" alt=\"\" width=\"600\" height=\"447\" \/><\/a>Azt gondolom, az embernek az \u00e9lete sor\u00e1n kevesebb bar\u00e1tja van, mint ah\u00e1ny ujja az egyik kez\u00e9n.<\/p>\n<p>Francis Bacon \u00edrta a bar\u00e1ts\u00e1gr\u00f3l, hogy h\u00e1rom \u00e9des gy\u00fcm\u00f6lcse van: az els\u0151, hogy &#8222;lecs\u00f6ndes\u00edti \u00e9s megk\u00f6nny\u00edti a sz\u00edvet, amely sz\u00e1mtalan k\u00fcl\u00f6nb\u00f6z\u0151 szenved\u00e9lyt\u0151l dagadozik s h\u00e1borog.&#8221;<\/p>\n<blockquote>\n<p><em>Tudjuk, a testnek eldugul\u00e1sos \u00e9s elfojt\u00f3d\u00e1sos betegs\u00e9gei a legveszedelmesebbek, s a l\u00e9lek sem sokban k\u00fcl\u00f6nb\u00f6zik t\u0151le: a sarsaparillagy\u00f6k\u00e9rrel megnyithatjuk a m\u00e1jat, ac\u00e9llal a l\u00e9pet, k\u00e9nvir\u00e1ggal a t\u00fcd\u0151t, h\u00f3dzs\u00edrral az agyat, \u00e1mde semmif\u00e9le medicina nem nyitja meg a sz\u00edvet, csak a j\u00f3 bar\u00e1t, akinek meggy\u00f3n\u00e1s- vagy vallom\u00e1sk\u00e9pp elmondhatjuk minden \u00f6r\u00f6m\u00fcnket, b\u00e1natunkat, f\u00e9lelm\u00fcnket, rem\u00e9ny\u00fcnket, sz\u00e1nd\u00e9kunkat.<\/em><\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n<p>A m\u00e1sodik gy\u00fcm\u00f6lcs az \u00e9rtelem sz\u00e1m\u00e1ra seg\u00edts\u00e9g: amikor gondolatainkat vitatjuk meg azzal, akiben b\u00edzunk. \u00cdt\u00e9l\u0151k\u00e9pess\u00e9g\u00fcnket t\u00e1mogatja egy j\u00f3 besz\u00e9lget\u00e9s.<\/p>\n<blockquote>\n<p><em>\u00a0A bar\u00e1ts\u00e1g der\u00fclt id\u0151t t\u00e1maszt az \u00e9rzelmekben a viharokb\u00f3l \u00e9s zivatarokb\u00f3l, de ver\u0151f\u00e9nyt der\u00edt f\u00f6l az \u00e9rtelemben a gondolatok z\u0171rzavar\u00e1nak s\u00f6t\u00e9tj\u00e9b\u0151l is. Ne csak \u00fagy \u00e9rts\u00fck ezt, hogy az ember j\u00f3 tan\u00e1csot kap bar\u00e1tj\u00e1t\u00f3l, hanem \u00fagy is, hogy m\u00e9g miel\u0151tt erre ker\u00fclne a sor, akinek a lelke m\u00e1r roskadozik a gondolatok sokas\u00e1ga alatt, annak elm\u00e9je \u00e9s \u00e9rtelme kitisztul \u00e9s megvil\u00e1gosodik, ha k\u00f6z\u00f6lheti \u00e9s megvitathatja \u0151ket m\u00e1ssal: k\u00f6nnyebben terelgetheti gondolatait; \u00e1ttekinthet\u0151bben rendezheti soraikat; l\u00e1thatja, hogyan festenek szavakba \u00f6lt\u00f6ztetve, s v\u00e9g\u00fcl: okosabb\u00e1 lesz \u00f6nmag\u00e1n\u00e1l, egy\u00f3r\u00e1nyi eszmecser\u00e9t\u0151l sokkal ink\u00e1bb, mint egynapi t\u00f6preng\u00e9st\u0151l.<\/em><\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n<p>A harmadik gy\u00fcm\u00f6lcs a k\u00f6lcs\u00f6n\u00f6s seg\u00edts\u00e9gny\u00fajt\u00e1s, az esem\u00e9nyekben t\u00f6rt\u00e9n\u0151 r\u00e9szv\u00e9tel, amely fizikai cselekv\u00e9sben is megnyilv\u00e1nul.<\/p>\n<blockquote>\n<p><em>A legc\u00e9lszer\u0171bben azzal bizony\u00edthatjuk itt a bar\u00e1ts\u00e1g sokr\u00e9t\u0171 haszn\u00e1t az \u00e9letben, ha kimutatjuk, hogy mennyi minden van, amit az ember nem vihet v\u00e9ghez \u00f6nmag\u00e1ban, s akkor kivil\u00e1glik az, hogy nagyon is m\u00e9rt\u00e9ktart\u00f3 az \u00f3kori mond\u00e1s: <span class=\"emphasis\">a j\u00f3 bar\u00e1t m\u00e1sodik \u00f6nmagunk,<\/span> hiszen a j\u00f3 bar\u00e1t j\u00f3val t\u00f6bb \u00f6nmagunkn\u00e1l.<\/em><\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n<p>S mi kell ahhoz, hogy az embernek legyen legal\u00e1bb egy igaz bar\u00e1tja? Mindenekel\u0151tt bizalom, \u0151szintes\u00e9g, \u00e9rdekn\u00e9lk\u00fclis\u00e9g, \u00f6nzetlens\u00e9g, a m\u00e1sik f\u00e9l tisztelete, h\u0171s\u00e9g &#8211; csupa olyasmi, ami jelenlegi internetes vil\u00e1gunkban egyre ink\u00e1bb kivesz\u0151ben van. A k\u00f6z\u00f6ss\u00e9gi oldalakon &#8222;\u00e9l\u0151&#8221;, gyakran szerepeket j\u00e1tsz\u00f3, felsz\u00ednes virtu\u00e1lis kapcsolatokkal rendelkez\u0151 emberek a val\u00f3di vil\u00e1gban elmag\u00e1nyosodnak. <a href=\"https:\/\/maimoni.cafeblog.hu\/files\/2018\/04\/baratsag1.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-large wp-image-15491\" src=\"https:\/\/maimoni.cafeblog.hu\/files\/2018\/04\/baratsag1-600x400.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"600\" height=\"400\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>Azt\u00e1n sz\u00fcks\u00e9g van a sokat emlegetett min\u0151s\u00e9gi id\u0151re &#8211; hiszen a bar\u00e1ts\u00e1got \u00e1polni kell, a besz\u00e9lget\u00e9sekhez, az egym\u00e1s \u00e9let\u00e9ben val\u00f3 r\u00e9szv\u00e9telhez id\u0151t kell elk\u00fcl\u00f6n\u00edten\u00fcnk. \u00c9rdemes megtenni, mert ha az \u00e9let elsodorja egym\u00e1st\u00f3l a feleket, komoly \u00e9rt\u00e9ket vesz\u00edtenek el az \u00e9let\u00fckb\u0151l, ami sokkal t\u00f6bbet \u00e9r ezer l\u00e1jkn\u00e1l, k\u00e9tsz\u00e1z megoszt\u00e1sn\u00e1l, sz\u00e1z virtu\u00e1lis ismer\u0151sn\u00e9l&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Nemr\u00e9g besz\u00e9lgettem valakivel arr\u00f3l, milyen is volt a tavalyi \u00e9v, \u00e9s akkor \u0151 azt mondta, hogy elvesztett egy-k\u00e9t r\u00e9gi bar\u00e1tot, de h\u00e1t nem baj, j\u00f6ttek helyett\u00fck \u00fajak. 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