{"id":20891,"date":"2023-08-18T09:29:51","date_gmt":"2023-08-18T09:29:51","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/monisuti.hu\/?p=20891"},"modified":"2023-08-18T11:02:29","modified_gmt":"2023-08-18T11:02:29","slug":"segitseg-hazasodik-a-gyerekem","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/sutismoni.hu\/?p=20891","title":{"rendered":"Seg\u00edts\u00e9g, h\u00e1zasodik a gyerekem!"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Mivel m\u00e1r h\u00e1rom gyerek\u00fcnket kih\u00e1zas\u00edtottuk, \u00fagy hiszem, van n\u00e9mi r\u00e1l\u00e1t\u00e1som arra, sz\u00fcl\u0151k\u00e9nt mi is a feladatunk  lesz\u00e1rmazottunk esk\u00fcv\u0151je kapcs\u00e1n. Vannak ebben gyakorlati dolgok is, de tal\u00e1n a leghangs\u00falyosabb az, hogy meg\u00e9lj\u00fck: a gyerek\u00fcnk t\u00e9nyleg lev\u00e1lik, ha eddig nem tette meg.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-gallery has-nested-images columns-default is-cropped wp-block-gallery-1 is-layout-flex wp-block-gallery-is-layout-flex\">\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"668\" height=\"498\" data-id=\"20898\" src=\"https:\/\/monisuti.hu\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/08\/IMG_4659.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-20898\" srcset=\"https:\/\/sutismoni.hu\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/08\/IMG_4659.jpg 668w, https:\/\/sutismoni.hu\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/08\/IMG_4659-300x224.jpg 300w, https:\/\/sutismoni.hu\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/08\/IMG_4659-80x60.jpg 80w, https:\/\/sutismoni.hu\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/08\/IMG_4659-110x83.jpg 110w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 668px) 100vw, 668px\" \/><\/figure>\n<\/figure>\n\n\n\n<h4 class=\"wp-block-heading\">1. Fogadd el a gyereked d\u00f6nt\u00e9s\u00e9t, \u00e9s \u00f6r\u00fclj vele!<\/h4>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ez az els\u0151, \u00e9s legfontosabb. A gyerek feln\u0151tt, a nevel\u00e9st ki lehet pip\u00e1lni, k\u00e9szen vagyunk. T\u00e1rsat v\u00e1lasztott mag\u00e1nak, akivel, ha m\u00e1r az esk\u00fcv\u0151ig jutottak, komolyan gondolja az \u00e9let\u00e9t. Sz\u00fcl\u0151k\u00e9nt nem lehet m\u00e1st tenni, mint elfogadni a v\u00e1lasztottat, \u00e9s szeretni. Csak \u00edgy maradhat meg a j\u00f3 kapcsolat a saj\u00e1t gyerek\u00fcnkkel is, aki innent\u0151l m\u00e1r nem hozz\u00e1nk tartozik els\u0151sorban, hanem a h\u00e1zast\u00e1rs\u00e1hoz. Ha olyan helyzetbe hozzuk, hogy \u0151 lesz az \u00fctk\u00f6z\u0151pont k\u00f6zt\u00fcnk \u00e9s a f\u00e9rje\/feles\u00e9ge k\u00f6z\u00f6tt, az csak rosszul v\u00e9gz\u0151dhet. Az egyik, hogy &#8211; helyesen &#8211; gyermek\u00fcnk ki\u00e1ll a d\u00f6nt\u00e9se, a h\u00e1zast\u00e1rsa mellett, \u00e9s megv\u00e9di \u0151t ak\u00e1r vel\u00fcnk szemben is.  A m\u00e1sik, ha nem el\u00e9g er\u0151s, hogy felv\u00e1llalja a konfliktust, \u00e9s \u0151rl\u0151dik a k\u00e9t f\u00e9l k\u00f6z\u00f6tt, l\u00e9v\u00e9n, hogy mindkett\u0151t szereti. A harmadik, ha egy id\u0151 ut\u00e1n bele\u00e1ll a sz\u00fcl\u0151 v\u00e9leked\u00e9s\u00e9be, \u00e9s v\u00e9g\u00fcl v\u00e1lasztottja ellen fordul. Ut\u00f3bbi kett\u0151nek j\u00f3 es\u00e9llyel v\u00e1l\u00e1s, de minimum boldogtalan \u00e9let a k\u00f6vetkezm\u00e9nye. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ne hozzuk a saj\u00e1t gyerek\u00fcnket olyan helyzetbe, hogy d\u00f6ntenie kelljen k\u00f6zt\u00fcnk \u00e9s v\u00e1lasztottja k\u00f6z\u00f6tt. M\u00e9g akkor se, ha adott esetben nem tetszik a v\u00e1laszt\u00e1sa. Az \u0151 \u00e9lete, hadd \u00e9lje \u00fagy, ahogy \u0151 akarja. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-gallery has-nested-images columns-default is-cropped wp-block-gallery-2 is-layout-flex wp-block-gallery-is-layout-flex\">\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1024\" height=\"683\" data-id=\"20893\" src=\"https:\/\/monisuti.hu\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/08\/DSC_0379-2-1024x683.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-20893\" srcset=\"https:\/\/sutismoni.hu\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/08\/DSC_0379-2-1024x683.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/sutismoni.hu\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/08\/DSC_0379-2-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/sutismoni.hu\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/08\/DSC_0379-2-768x512.jpg 768w, https:\/\/sutismoni.hu\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/08\/DSC_0379-2-90x60.jpg 90w, https:\/\/sutismoni.hu\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/08\/DSC_0379-2-370x247.jpg 370w, https:\/\/sutismoni.hu\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/08\/DSC_0379-2-776x517.jpg 776w, https:\/\/sutismoni.hu\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/08\/DSC_0379-2.jpg 1345w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1024px) 100vw, 1024px\" \/><\/figure>\n<\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">A magam r\u00e9sz\u00e9r\u0151l h\u00e1l\u00e1s vagyok mindk\u00e9t menyem\u00e9rt, \u00e9s az eddig egyetlen, \u00e9pp ez\u00e9rt m\u00e9g mondhatom, hogy legkedvesebb vejem\u00e9rt, nagyon szeretem mindegyik\u00fcket. Mindig \u00f6r\u00f6mmel l\u00e1tjuk mindegyik gyerek\u00fcnket h\u00e1zast\u00e1rsukkal, csal\u00e1djukkal egy\u00fctt, ha \u00e9pp \u00fagy d\u00f6ntenek, hogy megl\u00e1togatnak benn\u00fcnket. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<h4 class=\"wp-block-heading\">2. Vir\u00edtsd a l\u00f3v\u00e9t!<\/h4>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Amennyiben igaz a h\u00edres hadvez\u00e9r, Montecuccoli mond\u00e1sa, miszerint &#8222;A h\u00e1bor\u00fahoz h\u00e1rom dolog kell: p\u00e9nz, p\u00e9nz \u00e9s p\u00e9nz&#8221;, \u00fagy pontosan ez vonatkozik az esk\u00fcv\u0151re is. F\u0151leg, amilyen ipar\u00e1gg\u00e1 n\u0151tte ki mag\u00e1t az elm\u00falt \u00e9vtizedekben. Sokan, akik nem tudj\u00e1k felv\u00e1llalni a szervez\u00e9s terh\u00e9t, ink\u00e1bb esk\u00fcv\u0151szervez\u0151t fogadnak, aki rutinosan menedzseli a feladatokat. Cukr\u00e1szk\u00e9nt ilyet is sokat l\u00e1tok, n\u00e1lunk mindh\u00e1rom esk\u00fcv\u0151 saj\u00e1t szervez\u00e9sben ment, b\u00e1r mindegyik k\u00fcl\u00f6nb\u00f6z\u0151 m\u00f3don. Volt, ahol a helysz\u00edn illet\u00e9kesei sok mindent int\u00e9ztek, de volt olyan helysz\u00edn\u00fcnk, ahol &#8211; cser\u00e9be az alacsony k\u00f6lts\u00e9g\u00e9rt &#8211; mindent mi szervezt\u00fcnk. T\u00e9ny, hogy ut\u00f3bbi volt a legolcs\u00f3bb, \u00e9s egyben a legt\u00f6bb feladat is. De nem volt lehetetlen. Az biztos, hogy kellett hozz\u00e1 n\u00e9mi ismerets\u00e9g, nagy bar\u00e1ti k\u00f6r, \u00e9s h\u00e1t maga a csal\u00e1d is. \ud83d\ude42 Azt  lesz\u00f6gezhetem, hogy ak\u00e1rmekkora esk\u00fcv\u0151t is szeretn\u00e9nek a fiatalok, amire gondolsz, hogy el\u00e9g lesz r\u00e1: nem lesz az.  Gy\u0171jts\u00e9l m\u00e9g hozz\u00e1!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-gallery has-nested-images columns-default is-cropped wp-block-gallery-3 is-layout-flex wp-block-gallery-is-layout-flex\">\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"673\" height=\"897\" data-id=\"20894\" src=\"https:\/\/monisuti.hu\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/08\/IMG_3173.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-20894\" srcset=\"https:\/\/sutismoni.hu\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/08\/IMG_3173.jpg 673w, https:\/\/sutismoni.hu\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/08\/IMG_3173-225x300.jpg 225w, https:\/\/sutismoni.hu\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/08\/IMG_3173-45x60.jpg 45w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 673px) 100vw, 673px\" \/><\/figure>\n<\/figure>\n\n\n\n<h4 class=\"wp-block-heading\">2. H\u00faz\u00f3dj h\u00e1tt\u00e9rbe!<\/h4>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">A fiatal p\u00e1r sz\u00e1m\u00e1ra sok fesz\u00fclts\u00e9g forr\u00e1sa lehet a t\u00falmozg\u00e1sos sz\u00fcl\u0151. Az anyuka, aki a maga \u00e1lmait is bele akarja sz\u0151ni egyetlen kisfia esk\u00fcv\u0151j\u00e9be. Az apuka, aki \u00fagy gondolja, hogy mindent jobban tud, majd \u0151 megorganiz\u00e1lja az eg\u00e9szet. Az a sz\u00fcl\u0151, aki azt gondolja, hogy aki a p\u00e9nzt adja, az dikt\u00e1lja a felt\u00e9teleket. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Csak annyira folyjunk bele a dolgokba, amennyire a p\u00e1r ezt ig\u00e9nyli. Ez az \u0151 nagy napjuk, legyen olyan, amilyennek \u0151k szeretn\u00e9k! Ha olyan dekor\u00e1ci\u00f3t akarnak, ami neked nem tetszik, h\u00e1t legyen olyan! Ne tegy\u00e9l r\u00e1 megjegyz\u00e9st, \u00e9s v\u00e9lem\u00e9nyt is akkor form\u00e1lj, ha k\u00e9rdeznek. Ha nem k\u00e9rik, hogy r\u00e9szt vegy\u00e9l a szervez\u00e9sben, akkor ne tedd. Felaj\u00e1nlhatsz persze dolgokat &#8211; p\u00e9ld\u00e1ul, ismersz egy j\u00f3 helysz\u00ednt, h\u00e1tha tetszik nekik is, vagy, tudsz egy j\u00f3 cateringes c\u00e9get, tal\u00e1n kedvezm\u00e9nyt is adnak, ha gondolj\u00e1k, n\u00e9zz\u00e9k meg &#8211; de hadd d\u00f6ntsenek \u0151k. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-gallery has-nested-images columns-default is-cropped wp-block-gallery-4 is-layout-flex wp-block-gallery-is-layout-flex\">\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1024\" height=\"768\" data-id=\"20895\" src=\"https:\/\/monisuti.hu\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/08\/225714367_1652358974968388_3393695729013900550_n-1024x768.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-20895\" srcset=\"https:\/\/sutismoni.hu\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/08\/225714367_1652358974968388_3393695729013900550_n-1024x768.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/sutismoni.hu\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/08\/225714367_1652358974968388_3393695729013900550_n-300x225.jpg 300w, https:\/\/sutismoni.hu\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/08\/225714367_1652358974968388_3393695729013900550_n-768x576.jpg 768w, https:\/\/sutismoni.hu\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/08\/225714367_1652358974968388_3393695729013900550_n-1536x1152.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/sutismoni.hu\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/08\/225714367_1652358974968388_3393695729013900550_n-80x60.jpg 80w, https:\/\/sutismoni.hu\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/08\/225714367_1652358974968388_3393695729013900550_n-640x480.jpg 640w, https:\/\/sutismoni.hu\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/08\/225714367_1652358974968388_3393695729013900550_n-110x83.jpg 110w, https:\/\/sutismoni.hu\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/08\/225714367_1652358974968388_3393695729013900550_n.jpg 2048w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1024px) 100vw, 1024px\" \/><\/figure>\n<\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Mi a vend\u00e9glist\u00e1ba k\u00e9rt\u00fcnk egy kis belesz\u00f3l\u00e1st, n\u00e9h\u00e1ny vend\u00e9get szerett\u00fcnk volna, hogy mindenk\u00e9pp megh\u00edvjanak &#8211; de csak olyanokat, akikbe \u0151k is beleegyeztek. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<h4 class=\"wp-block-heading\">4. Mosolyogj, \u00f6r\u00fclj, \u00e9rezd j\u00f3l magad!<\/h4>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">A nagy napon optim\u00e1lis esetben m\u00e1r csak \u00f6r\u00fclni kellene, meg sz\u00e9pen egy\u00fctt haladni az esem\u00e9nyekkel, de persze rengeteg fesz\u00fclts\u00e9gforr\u00e1s ad\u00f3dik m\u00e9g akkor is, ha egy\u00e9bk\u00e9nt minden rendben van. \u00c9rdemes felk\u00e9sz\u00fclni arra, hogy nem lesz minden t\u00f6k\u00e9letes, valami mindig k\u00f6zbej\u00f6n, hiszen ott, ahol ennyi ember mozog, ennyi emberen mennek kereszt\u00fcl inform\u00e1ci\u00f3k, egyszer\u0171en lehetetlen, hogy minden az el\u0151re eltervezett m\u00f3don t\u00f6rt\u00e9njen. De ezt fogadjuk el, hiszen az \u00e9let is ilyen, \u00e9s a legjobb, ha humorral \u00e1llunk hozz\u00e1. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-gallery has-nested-images columns-default is-cropped wp-block-gallery-5 is-layout-flex wp-block-gallery-is-layout-flex\">\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1024\" height=\"683\" data-id=\"20896\" src=\"https:\/\/monisuti.hu\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/08\/IMG_3104-1024x683.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-20896\" srcset=\"https:\/\/sutismoni.hu\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/08\/IMG_3104-1024x683.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/sutismoni.hu\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/08\/IMG_3104-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/sutismoni.hu\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/08\/IMG_3104-768x512.jpg 768w, https:\/\/sutismoni.hu\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/08\/IMG_3104-90x60.jpg 90w, https:\/\/sutismoni.hu\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/08\/IMG_3104-370x247.jpg 370w, https:\/\/sutismoni.hu\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/08\/IMG_3104-776x517.jpg 776w, https:\/\/sutismoni.hu\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/08\/IMG_3104.jpg 1345w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1024px) 100vw, 1024px\" \/><\/figure>\n<\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Nyilv\u00e1n, lehetnek helyzetek, amik adott esetben k\u00ednos szitu\u00e1ci\u00f3kat eredm\u00e9nyeznek, de az biztos, hogy nem szabad, hogy az esk\u00fcv\u0151, a lakodalom &#8211; ak\u00e1r elv\u00e1lt sz\u00fcl\u0151k k\u00f6z\u00f6tti &#8211; veszeked\u00e9sek, csat\u00e1roz\u00e1sok sz\u00ednhely\u00e9v\u00e9 v\u00e1ljon. A sz\u00fcl\u0151 alap hozz\u00e1\u00e1ll\u00e1sa a gyereke ir\u00e1nti szeretet kell, hogy legyen; ebb\u0151l a szeretetb\u0151l kiindulva pedig \u00f6r\u00f6msz\u00fcl\u0151kk\u00e9nt \u00f6r\u00fclni kell. Csacsogni a rokonokkal, bar\u00e1tokkal, vend\u00e9gekkel, t\u00e1ncolni, \u00e9s \u00e9lvezni azt, hogy elj\u00f6tt ez a nap.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h4 class=\"wp-block-heading\">5. Lehet, hogy fel kell dolgoznod a v\u00e1ltoz\u00e1st?<\/h4>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Azt is tudom most m\u00e1r, hogy teljesen rendben van, ha \u00e9rzelmileg kibillenti a sz\u00fcl\u0151t az esk\u00fcv\u0151. Ezt \u00e9n az els\u0151 h\u00e1zasod\u00f3 gyerek\u00fcnkn\u00e9l, N\u00f3rin\u00e1l \u00e9ltem meg (a t\u00f6bbiekn\u00e9l m\u00e1r el\u0151re dolgoztam rajta magamban). Nagyon \u00e9rdekes volt tapasztalni magamon, hogy az esk\u00fcv\u0151 k\u00f6zeledt\u00e9vel egyre gyakrabban el\u00e9rz\u00e9keny\u00fcltem, \u00e9s \u00fagy \u00e9reztem, hogy nincs es\u00e9lyem m\u00e1r j\u00f3v\u00e1 tenni azt, amit esetleg elrontottam vele kapcsolatban. Persze, ez nem \u00edgy van, \u00e9s ut\u00f3lag l\u00e1tom, hogy a kapcsolatunk csak jobb lett, gyakran kik\u00e9ri a tan\u00e1csomat dolgokban, \u00e9s ha tudok, seg\u00edtek. \u00cdgy vagyunk a t\u00f6bbi gyerek\u00fcnkkel kapcsolatban is, akik m\u00e1r h\u00e1zasok: ha k\u00e9rdeznek, elmondjuk a v\u00e9lem\u00e9ny\u00fcnket, de \u00f6nk\u00e9nt nem osztjuk az \u00e9szt. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-gallery has-nested-images columns-default is-cropped wp-block-gallery-6 is-layout-flex wp-block-gallery-is-layout-flex\">\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1024\" height=\"683\" data-id=\"20897\" src=\"https:\/\/monisuti.hu\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/08\/teodora_simon_181316-1-1024x683.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-20897\" srcset=\"https:\/\/sutismoni.hu\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/08\/teodora_simon_181316-1-1024x683.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/sutismoni.hu\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/08\/teodora_simon_181316-1-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/sutismoni.hu\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/08\/teodora_simon_181316-1-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/sutismoni.hu\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/08\/teodora_simon_181316-1-90x60.jpg 90w, https:\/\/sutismoni.hu\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/08\/teodora_simon_181316-1-370x247.jpg 370w, https:\/\/sutismoni.hu\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/08\/teodora_simon_181316-1-776x517.jpg 776w, https:\/\/sutismoni.hu\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/08\/teodora_simon_181316-1.jpg 1344w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1024px) 100vw, 1024px\" \/><\/figure>\n<\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Az biztos, hogy \u00e9rdemes megfogalmazni a benn\u00fcnk kialakul\u00f3 \u00e9rz\u00e9seket a h\u00e1zast\u00e1rsunknak (lehet, hogy \u0151 is csak \u00e9rtetlen\u00fcl \u00e1ll az el\u0151tt, ami vel\u00fcnk t\u00f6rt\u00e9nik), \u00e9s nyugodtan s\u00edrjunk, ha az kell. Ha a besz\u00e9lget\u00e9sek a csal\u00e1don bel\u00fcl, bar\u00e1tokkal nem hoznak enyh\u00fcl\u00e9st, akkor ak\u00e1r szakember seg\u00edts\u00e9g\u00e9t is ig\u00e9nybe lehet venni, egy\u00e1ltal\u00e1n nem sz\u00e9gyen ma m\u00e1r pszichol\u00f3gushoz j\u00e1rni, \u00e9s h\u00e1tha r\u00e1 tud vil\u00e1g\u00edtani olyasmire, aminek a kezel\u00e9s\u00e9vel a lelk\u00fcnk helyre\u00e1ll. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">A gyerekek kirep\u00fcl\u00e9s\u00e9vel a sz\u00fcl\u0151k \u00e9let\u00e9ben \u00faj korszak j\u00f6n el: ez igazi felh\u0151tlen szabads\u00e1g lehet, ha \u00fagy alak\u00edtjuk. <\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Mivel m\u00e1r h\u00e1rom gyerek\u00fcnket kih\u00e1zas\u00edtottuk, \u00fagy hiszem, van n\u00e9mi r\u00e1l\u00e1t\u00e1som arra, sz\u00fcl\u0151k\u00e9nt mi is a feladatunk lesz\u00e1rmazottunk esk\u00fcv\u0151je kapcs\u00e1n. 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