{"id":2483,"date":"2011-01-12T23:48:00","date_gmt":"2011-01-12T22:48:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/maimoni.cafeblog.hu\/2011\/01\/12\/hajjaj\/"},"modified":"2011-01-12T23:48:00","modified_gmt":"2011-01-12T22:48:00","slug":"hajjaj","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/sutismoni.hu\/?p=2483","title":{"rendered":"Hajjaj"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>18-\u00e1n vizsg\u00e1zom szociol\u00f3gi\u00e1b\u00f3l, \u00e9s a k\u00f6nyvet olvasva azt veszem \u00e9szre, minden mondat ut\u00e1n elkalandozom. M\u00e9g van t\u00f6bbsz\u00e1z oldal.<br \/>Na, mes\u00e9lek kicsit arr\u00f3l, hogy is van most ez az <a href=\"http:\/\/praktikaksokgyerekhez.blogspot.com\/2010\/09\/egyetem-begyetem.html\">egyetem-dolog<\/a>, mivel m\u00e1r itt <a href=\"http:\/\/praktikaksokgyerekhez.blogspot.com\/2011\/01\/pillanatkep-mai-naprol-majd.html\">utalgattam<\/a> arra, hogy vizsg\u00e1zom, mintha olyan egyszer\u0171 lett volna eljutni id\u00e1ig.<br \/>Nem volt az.<br \/>El\u0151sz\u00f6r is: a suli szuper, nagyon \u00e9lvezem, nem haladja meg az er\u0151met (eddig), \u00e9s olyan \u00e9rz\u00e9s ott lenni, mint amikor az ember tudja, hogy a hely\u00e9n van.<br \/>Ez\u00e9rt is ker\u00fcltem enyh\u00e9n depresszi\u00f3ba, amikor decemberben tand\u00edj-nemfizet\u00e9s miatt letiltott\u00e1k a vizsgajelentkez\u00e9semet. Nem volt p\u00e9nz\u00fcnk. Tand\u00edjra f\u0151leg nem. A f\u00e9rjem t\u0151l\u00fcnk hatsz\u00e1z kilom\u00e9terre kereste porban-koszban a keny\u00e9rreval\u00f3t, \u00e9n meg azt f\u00e1jlaltam, hogy nem tudok befizetni sz\u00e1zharmincezret a f\u00e9l\u00e9vemre. Lelkiismeret-furdal\u00e1som volt; \u00fagy \u00e9reztem, ha valahonnan el\u0151 tudn\u00e1m ker\u00edteni, bizony, befizetn\u00e9m azt a p\u00e9nzt. Be \u00e9n.<br \/>Sajn\u00e1ltam, hogy nem gondoltam v\u00e9gig el\u0151bb ezt az eg\u00e9szet, felvettem volna a di\u00e1khitelt, de most m\u00e1r k\u00e9s\u0151&#8230; Janu\u00e1r 15-\u00e9n foly\u00f3s\u00edtj\u00e1k, ha most megig\u00e9nylem, akkor meg m\u00e1r majdnem v\u00e9ge a vizsgaid\u0151szaknak. \u00c9s lehet, hogy csak erre az egy f\u00e9l\u00e9vre kell, az meg nem olyan v\u00e9szes, azzal nem \u00faszom el h\u00fasz \u00e9vre&#8230; ez j\u00e1rt a fejemben december k\u00f6zep\u00e9n.<br \/>\u00c9pp csak megeml\u00edtettem a bar\u00e1tn\u0151mnek, Eszternek, a kanadainak ezt az eg\u00e9sz dilemm\u00e1t, aki gyakorlatilag k\u00e9r\u00e9s n\u00e9lk\u00fcl \u00a0egy-k\u00e9t napon bel\u00fcl elutalta nekem a p\u00e9nzt azzal, hogy fizessem be, tanuljak, ha m\u00e1r elkezdtem, igenis csin\u00e1ljam v\u00e9gig, \u00e9s ne \u00fagy tekintsem, hogy a gyerekeim el\u0151l veszem el \u00a0a p\u00e9nzt, hanem vegyem \u00fagy, mint befektet\u00e9st.<br \/>\u00cdgy ker\u00fclhetett sor arra, hogy bejelentkezhessem a vizsg\u00e1kra, \u00e9s hogy most idegeskedjem a szociol\u00f3gia miatt.<br \/>De valamit nagyon elhat\u00e1roztam: sokkal \u00e1tgondoltabban fogom \u00e9lni az \u00e9letemet, illetve terelgetni a csal\u00e1di \u00e9let\u00fcnket. Az elm\u00falt \u00e9vtizedekben hajlamos voltam arra, hogy hagyjam a dolgokat arra folyni, amerre akarnak &#8211; ez a taktika n\u00e9ha bev\u00e1lt, n\u00e9ha nem. Megel\u00e9geltem. B\u00e1r nem szoktam \u00faj\u00e9vi fogadalmakat tenni, mert h\u00fclyes\u00e9gnek tartottam mindig is, most tettem.<br \/>Elhat\u00e1roztam p\u00e9ld\u00e1ul, hogy nem v\u00e1rok m\u00e1sokra, f\u0151leg nem \u00fcres \u00edg\u00e9retekre. \u00d3, azokkal tele van a padl\u00e1s. Tudatosan dolgozni fogok azon, hogy a 2011-es \u00e9v\u00fcnk j\u00f3 legyen, \u00e9s erre n\u00e9zve el is hat\u00e1roztam egyet s m\u00e1st &#8211; az egyik ilyen a saj\u00e1t k\u00f6nyvem kiad\u00e1sa, amivel kapcsolatban nemr\u00e9g k\u00f6zv\u00e9lem\u00e9ny-kutat\u00e1st is folytattam a blogon, hogy pap\u00edralap\u00fa, vagy ink\u00e1bb let\u00f6lthet\u0151 legyen. C\u00e9lokat t\u0171ztem ki, konkr\u00e9t c\u00e9lokat: mennyi legyen a havi j\u00f6vedelm\u00fcnk, mit szeretn\u00e9k megval\u00f3s\u00edtani id\u00e9n, ilyesmiket.<br \/>\u00c9s tudj\u00e1tok mi t\u00f6rt\u00e9nt?<br \/>Az \u00faj\u00e9v els\u0151 napjaiban az egyik k\u00f6nyvkiad\u00f3 k\u00e9pvisel\u0151je jelentkezett, hogy mit sz\u00f3ln\u00e9k, ha kiadn\u00e1k a k\u00f6nyvemet.<br \/>A f\u00e9rjem olyan munk\u00e1t kapott itthon, hogy megkeresi vele azt a p\u00e9nzt, amit kit\u0171ztem c\u00e9lk\u00e9nt.<br \/>A vizsg\u00e1imat eddig n\u00e9gyes \u00e1tlaggal (ebben benne van a matek kettes) hoztam.<br \/>18-\u00e1n szociol\u00f3gia. Rem\u00e9lem, a j\u00f3 sz\u00e9ria folytat\u00f3dik.<\/p>\n<p>Ma megint <a href=\"http:\/\/praktikaksokgyerekhez.blogspot.com\/2011\/01\/sos-stangli.html\">sajtos stangli<\/a> volt, de libazs\u00edrral. Perfect.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>18-\u00e1n vizsg\u00e1zom szociol\u00f3gi\u00e1b\u00f3l, \u00e9s a k\u00f6nyvet olvasva azt veszem \u00e9szre, minden mondat ut\u00e1n elkalandozom. M\u00e9g van t\u00f6bbsz\u00e1z oldal.Na, mes\u00e9lek kicsit arr\u00f3l, hogy is van most ez az egyetem-dolog, mivel m\u00e1r &hellip; <\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-2483","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-uncategorized"],"yoast_head":"<!-- This site is optimized with the Yoast SEO plugin v26.7 - https:\/\/yoast.com\/wordpress\/plugins\/seo\/ -->\n<title>Hajjaj - S\u00fctis M\u00f3ni<\/title>\n<meta name=\"robots\" content=\"index, follow, max-snippet:-1, max-image-preview:large, max-video-preview:-1\" \/>\n<link rel=\"canonical\" href=\"https:\/\/sutismoni.hu\/?p=2483\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:locale\" content=\"hu_HU\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:type\" content=\"article\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:title\" content=\"Hajjaj - S\u00fctis M\u00f3ni\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:description\" content=\"18-\u00e1n vizsg\u00e1zom szociol\u00f3gi\u00e1b\u00f3l, \u00e9s a k\u00f6nyvet olvasva azt veszem \u00e9szre, minden mondat ut\u00e1n elkalandozom. 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