{"id":3878,"date":"2010-02-24T22:30:00","date_gmt":"2010-02-24T21:30:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/maimoni.cafeblog.hu\/2010\/02\/24\/edes-gyerekem-mer-valogatsz\/"},"modified":"2010-02-24T22:30:00","modified_gmt":"2010-02-24T21:30:00","slug":"edes-gyerekem-mer-valogatsz","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/sutismoni.hu\/?p=3878","title":{"rendered":"\u00c9des gyerekem, m\u00e9r’ v\u00e1logatsz???"},"content":{"rendered":"

Ha az ember m\u00e1r h\u00e1rom gyerekn\u00e9l sikeres volt abban, hogy azok ne v\u00e1logassanak az \u00e9teleket illet\u0151en – azaz ne legyenek finny\u00e1sak -, joggal v\u00e1rhatja, hogy a negyedik gyermek is k\u00f6veti majd az \u0151t megel\u0151z\u0151k p\u00e9ld\u00e1j\u00e1t.
Azt\u00e1n juszt se.
Hat\u00e9ves Zs\u00f3fi l\u00e1nyunk egyed\u00fcl t\u00f6bb \u00e9telt nem kedvel, mint a h\u00e1rom nagyobb \u00f6sszesen. Pr\u00f3b\u00e1lkoztunk sz\u00e9p sz\u00f3val, k\u00e9rlel\u00e9ssel, fenyeget\u00e9ssel, szid\u00e1ssal, de ha a gyerek egyszer m\u00e1r eld\u00f6nt\u00f6tte, hogy \u0151 azt a – mondjuk – f\u0151zel\u00e9ket nem szereti, akkor nem eszi meg. Ha hosszas egyezked\u00e9s ut\u00e1n esetleg hajland\u00f3 is megk\u00f3stolni (merthogy legt\u00f6bbsz\u00f6r m\u00e9g id\u00e1ig sem jut el), addigra m\u00e1r olyan m\u00e9rt\u00e9k\u0171 averzi\u00f3 alakult ki benne az adott \u00e9tellel szemben, hogy m\u00e9g le sem \u00e9r a falat a tork\u00e1n, m\u00e1r \u00f6klendezik, de legal\u00e1bbis lefel\u00e9 g\u00f6rb\u00fcl\u0151 sz\u00e1jjal mondja: nem \u00edzlik…
Egy id\u0151 ut\u00e1n elkezdt\u00fcnk k\u00e9pzeletbeli list\u00e1t vezetni a Zs\u00f3fi \u00e1ltal prefer\u00e1lt \u00e9telekb\u0151l. \u0150 maga is sz\u00edvesen vesz r\u00e9szt ebben a j\u00e1t\u00e9kban.
– Mit f\u0151z\u00f6l anya?
– Bolognai spagettit.
– De j\u00f3, az list\u00e1s!
Azt\u00e1n amikor olyan \u00e9tel ker\u00fcl az asztalra, amit eddig m\u00e9g nem k\u00f3stolt, az eg\u00e9sz csal\u00e1d k\u00edv\u00e1ncsian v\u00e1rja Zs\u00f3fi \u00edt\u00e9let\u00e9t; \u0151 pedig el\u0151sz\u00f6r bizalmatlanul n\u00e9zegeti a pr\u00f3bafalatot, majd szerepl\u00e9se fontoss\u00e1g\u00e1nak teljes tudat\u00e1ban sz\u00e1j\u00e1ba veszi, lehunyt szemmel \u00edzlelgeti, forgatja. \u00c9s egyszer csak szemei kipattannak, mosoly \u00fcl az arc\u00e1ra, majd vid\u00e1man jelenti ki: list\u00e1s!!!
Ilyenkor persze tapsolunk \u00e9s \u00e9ljenz\u00fcnk, \u00e9s meg is jegyezz\u00fck \u00f6r\u00f6mmel, milyen sok \u00e9tel szerepel m\u00e1r ezen a list\u00e1n… Ez a j\u00e1t\u00e9k jav\u00edtott valamit Zs\u00f3fi k\u00eds\u00e9rletez\u0151 kedv\u00e9n, de az\u00e9rt m\u00e9g mindig sokszor hangzik el a refr\u00e9n: nem \u00edzlik…
Lehet, hogy kicsit elk\u00e9nyeztett\u00fck a mi legkisebb\u00fcnket, de higgy\u00e9tek el, ennyire nem. Eml\u00e9keztek a vakb\u00e9lgyullad\u00e1sos sztorira<\/a>? Ott is l\u00e1tszik, elk\u00e9peszt\u0151en nyugodtan, t\u00fcrelmesen viselt el mindent. Zs\u00f3fi egy t\u00fcnem\u00e9nyes, sz\u00f3fogad\u00f3, engedelmes, szel\u00edd gyerek, \u00e9let\u00e9ben nem hisztizett; tal\u00e1n egyed\u00fcl ezen a ter\u00fcleten vannak vele\u00a0 komolyabb n\u00e9zetelt\u00e9r\u00e9seink. Azt\u00e1n nemr\u00e9g olvastam a szuper\u00edzlel\u0151kr\u0151l, \u00e9s az jutott eszembe, mi van akkor, ha Zs\u00f3fi az\u00e9rt nem eszik meg ennyi mindent, mert t\u00e9nyeg nem \u00edzlik neki?
Az embernek sz\u00fclet\u00e9sekor nagyj\u00e1b\u00f3l t\u00edzezer \u00edzlel\u0151bimb\u00f3ja van, ezek sz\u00e1ma \u00f6regkorra \u00fagy h\u00e1romezerre cs\u00f6kken. A legt\u00f6bb a nyelven tal\u00e1lhat\u00f3, de van a sz\u00e1jpadl\u00e1son, a garatban, az arc bels\u0151 oldal\u00e1n is.\u00a0 A szuper\u00edzlel\u0151knek h\u00e1romszor annyi \u00edzlel\u0151bimb\u00f3juk van, mint az \u00e1tlagnak – \u00e9s \u0151k teszik ki az emberek k\u00f6zel egyharmad\u00e1t. Statisztikailag teh\u00e1t abszol\u00fate belef\u00e9r, hogy a n\u00e9gy gyerekem k\u00f6z\u00fcl az egyik \u00edgy j\u00e1rt.
Ez ugyanis ink\u00e1bb rossz, mint j\u00f3; a szuper\u00edzlel\u0151k \u00edz\u00e9rz\u00e9kel\u00e9se sokkal intenz\u00edvebb. F\u0151k\u00e9nt a keser\u0171 \u00e9s az er\u0151s \u00edzeket sz\u00farj\u00e1k ki olyan \u00e9telekben is, amelyekben mondjuk egy \u00e1tlagember nem is \u00e9rzi, \u00edgy azt\u00e1n sokkal nehezebben tal\u00e1lnak maguknak olyasmit, amit szeretnek. Ez\u00e9rt t\u0171nhetnek finny\u00e1snak, noha nem azok.
Teh\u00e1t, kedves sz\u00fcl\u0151t\u00e1rsak, miel\u0151tt legk\u00f6zelebb r\u00e1ripakodtok v\u00e1logat\u00f3s gyermeketekre, gondolkodjatok el ezen… Persze, nem azt mondom \u00e9n, hogy minden szinten toler\u00e1lni kell az \u00e9telek turk\u00e1l\u00e1s\u00e1t, de mi van, ha szeg\u00e9nynek h\u00e1romszor annyi az \u00edzlel\u0151bimb\u00f3ja?!
Megjegyzem, err\u0151l csup\u00e1n egyf\u00e9lek\u00e9ppen bizonyosodhatunk meg: ha megsz\u00e1moljuk.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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