{"id":4191,"date":"2009-10-05T22:51:00","date_gmt":"2009-10-05T20:51:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/maimoni.cafeblog.hu\/2009\/10\/05\/a-gyerekneveles-nehezsegei-es-egy-konnyu-vacsora\/"},"modified":"2009-10-05T22:51:00","modified_gmt":"2009-10-05T20:51:00","slug":"a-gyerekneveles-nehezsegei-es-egy-konnyu-vacsora","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/sutismoni.hu\/?p=4191","title":{"rendered":"A gyereknevel\u00e9s neh\u00e9zs\u00e9gei &#8211; \u00e9s egy k\u00f6nny\u0171 vacsora"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Azt hiszem, akinek blogja van, az id\u0151nk\u00e9nt elsz\u00f3rakozik azzal, hogy megn\u00e9zi: milyen kulcsszavak alapj\u00e1n tal\u00e1lnak r\u00e1 a google-b\u00f3l olvas\u00f3k. \u00c9n is el szoktam olvasgatni, \u00e9s sokszor j\u00f3kat nevetek, vagy \u00e9pp csod\u00e1lkozom. Egyszer \u00fagy jutott hozz\u00e1m valaki, hogy azt g\u00e9pelte a keres\u0151be: &#8222;ha h\u00fclye gyerekem van&#8221;.<br \/>Van olyan sz\u00f6sszenet a blogon, amiben a h\u00fclye is, a gyerek is szerepel, igaz, nem ebben a kontextusban, ahogy a kedves olvas\u00f3 szerette volna &#8211; de az\u00e9rt, ha j\u00f3l eml\u00e9kszem, maradt j\u00f3p\u00e1r percig m\u00e9gis. \u00d6r\u00fcltem neki.<br \/>Azon a\u00a0 nyers v\u00e9lem\u00e9nyen el\u0151sz\u00f6r visszah\u0151k\u00f6ltem, hogy h\u00e1t milyen dolog ez, valaki leh\u00fcly\u00e9zi a saj\u00e1t gyerek\u00e9t, de \u00fagy \u00e9rzem, el\u00e9rkeztem arra a pontra, hogy most m\u00e1r meg\u00e9rtem. Nem helyeslem persze, de bizony gondolatban \u00e9n is eljutottam od\u00e1ig, hogy az j\u00e1rt az eszemben: mi van ezzel a gyerekkel? Megbolondult?<br \/>Fi\u00fa, kiskamasz. J\u00e1tssza a nagymen\u0151t a kisebbek, a nagyobbak el\u0151tt, belebambul a feln\u0151ttek besz\u00e9lget\u00e9s\u00e9be, k\u00f6tekedik a testv\u00e9reivel, pof\u00e1kat v\u00e1g, nem \u00fagy sz\u00f3l vissza, ahogy kellene,\u00a0\u00e9s sokszor pontosan \u00fagy viselkedik, mint az ideges\u00edt\u0151 kamaszod\u00f3 gyerekek: bunk\u00f3n.<br \/>Am\u00fagy meg persze okos, \u00e9rtelmes, j\u00f3sz\u00edv\u0171 sr\u00e1c, \u00e9s ha el\u0151veszem a f\u00e9nyk\u00e9palbumokat, rengeteg j\u00f3 t\u00f6rt\u00e9net jut eszembe vele kapcsolatban. Meg az, hogy &#8222;olyan aranyos\u00a0kisfi\u00fa volt!&#8221; H\u00e1t ha valamit\u0151l, az ilyen mondatokt\u00f3l mindig bors\u00f3zott a h\u00e1tam. F\u0151leg akkor, amikor m\u00e9g nem volt gyerekem, vagy csak p\u00e1r \u00e9vesek voltak, \u00e9s m\u00e9g nagyon tudtam, hogyan kell gyereket nevelni.<br \/>Valahogy most m\u00e1r nem olyan egyszer\u0171. Nincsenek s\u00e9m\u00e1k ugyanis, amit ha bebifl\u00e1z a sz\u00fcl\u0151, tutira minden siker\u00fcl majd. Ha csak az \u00e9n n\u00e9gyemet n\u00e9zem: ami m\u0171k\u00f6d\u00f6tt az egyikn\u00e9l, az nem volt alkalmazhat\u00f3 a m\u00e1sikn\u00e1l &#8211; mondjuk a fegyelmez\u00e9s ter\u00e9n. Mindegyik m\u00e1smilyen, m\u00e1sfajta b\u00e1n\u00e1sm\u00f3dot ig\u00e9nyel.\u00a0Azt\u00e1n majd h\u00fasz \u00e9v m\u00falva kider\u00fcl, hogy j\u00f3l csin\u00e1ltuk-e.<br \/>H\u00e1t ilyesmiken morfond\u00edroztam, mik\u00f6zben a frissen k\u00e9sz\u00edtett birsalmalekv\u00e1rb\u00f3l, meg p\u00e1r szem k\u00f6rt\u00e9b\u0151l, egy kis gorgonzol\u00e1b\u00f3l, rozmaringb\u00f3l \u00e9s feh\u00e9rborb\u00f3l valami csudafinomat hoztam \u00f6ssze &#8211; <a href=\"http:\/\/limarapeksege.blogspot.com\/2009\/10\/korte-gorgonzolaval-es-rozmaringgal.html\">Limara<\/a>\u00a0nyom\u00e1n.<\/p>\n<div><a href=\"http:\/\/3.bp.blogspot.com\/_XHrWbGZXtAk\/SspYmNHK2yI\/AAAAAAAABVI\/qDVUtGjKqXQ\/s1600-h\/ak%C3%B6rt.jpg\"><img decoding=\"async\" border=\"0\" src=\"https:\/\/maimoni.cafeblog.hu\/files\/2009\/10\/ak\u00f6rt.jpg\"><\/a><\/div>\n<p>A k\u00f6rt\u00e9ket f\u00e9lbev\u00e1gtam, magh\u00e1zukat kiv\u00e1jtam, \u00e9s finom fanyar-\u00e9des birsalmalekv\u00e1rral t\u00f6lt\u00f6ttem meg. 5-6 kis kocka gorgonzol\u00e1t helyeztem el rajtuk, majd rozmaringleveleket potyogtattam a felekre. Kisebb tepsibe \u00fcltettem a k\u00f6rt\u00e9ket (mindegyik alj\u00e1b\u00f3l\u00a0 lev\u00e1gtam egy kis r\u00e9szt, hogy stabilan \u00fclj\u00f6n), \u00f6nt\u00f6ttem al\u00e1 \u00fagy 1,5 deci feh\u00e9rbort, \u00e9s f\u00e9l \u00f3r\u00e1ra betoltam a 210 fokos s\u00fct\u0151be.<br \/>Limara k\u00f6retk\u00e9nt eml\u00edti, el is tudom k\u00e9pzelni s\u00fclt h\u00fasokhoz; mi csak \u00fagy mag\u00e1ban ett\u00fck, k\u00f6nny\u0171 vacsora gyan\u00e1nt. <br \/>Na persze, kamaszod\u00f3 fi\u00faknak ez nem \u00edzlik. (De az\u00e9rt szeretj\u00fck \u0151t \u00edgy is, ahogy van.)<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Azt hiszem, akinek blogja van, az id\u0151nk\u00e9nt elsz\u00f3rakozik azzal, hogy megn\u00e9zi: milyen kulcsszavak alapj\u00e1n tal\u00e1lnak r\u00e1 a google-b\u00f3l olvas\u00f3k. \u00c9n is el szoktam olvasgatni, \u00e9s sokszor j\u00f3kat nevetek, vagy \u00e9pp &hellip; <\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-4191","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-uncategorized"],"yoast_head":"<!-- This site is optimized with the Yoast SEO plugin v26.7 - https:\/\/yoast.com\/wordpress\/plugins\/seo\/ -->\n<title>A gyereknevel\u00e9s neh\u00e9zs\u00e9gei - \u00e9s egy k\u00f6nny\u0171 vacsora - S\u00fctis M\u00f3ni<\/title>\n<meta name=\"robots\" content=\"index, follow, max-snippet:-1, max-image-preview:large, max-video-preview:-1\" \/>\n<link rel=\"canonical\" href=\"https:\/\/sutismoni.hu\/?p=4191\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:locale\" content=\"hu_HU\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:type\" content=\"article\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:title\" content=\"A gyereknevel\u00e9s neh\u00e9zs\u00e9gei - \u00e9s egy k\u00f6nny\u0171 vacsora - S\u00fctis M\u00f3ni\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:description\" content=\"Azt hiszem, akinek blogja van, az id\u0151nk\u00e9nt elsz\u00f3rakozik azzal, hogy megn\u00e9zi: milyen kulcsszavak alapj\u00e1n tal\u00e1lnak r\u00e1 a google-b\u00f3l olvas\u00f3k. \u00c9n is el szoktam olvasgatni, \u00e9s sokszor j\u00f3kat nevetek, vagy \u00e9pp &hellip;\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:url\" content=\"https:\/\/sutismoni.hu\/?p=4191\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:site_name\" content=\"S\u00fctis M\u00f3ni\" \/>\n<meta property=\"article:published_time\" content=\"2009-10-05T20:51:00+00:00\" \/>\n<meta name=\"author\" content=\"maimoni\" \/>\n<meta name=\"twitter:card\" content=\"summary_large_image\" \/>\n<meta name=\"twitter:label1\" content=\"Szerz\u0151:\" \/>\n\t<meta name=\"twitter:data1\" content=\"maimoni\" \/>\n\t<meta name=\"twitter:label2\" content=\"Becs\u00fclt olvas\u00e1si id\u0151\" \/>\n\t<meta name=\"twitter:data2\" content=\"3 perc\" \/>\n<script type=\"application\/ld+json\" class=\"yoast-schema-graph\">{\"@context\":\"https:\/\/schema.org\",\"@graph\":[{\"@type\":\"Article\",\"@id\":\"https:\/\/sutismoni.hu\/?p=4191#article\",\"isPartOf\":{\"@id\":\"https:\/\/sutismoni.hu\/?p=4191\"},\"author\":{\"name\":\"maimoni\",\"@id\":\"https:\/\/sutismoni.hu\/#\/schema\/person\/73a5ca1696d959771ae40f9a136885aa\"},\"headline\":\"A gyereknevel\u00e9s neh\u00e9zs\u00e9gei &#8211; 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