{"id":5969,"date":"2013-09-04T23:28:20","date_gmt":"2013-09-04T21:28:20","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/maimoni.cafeblog.hu\/?p=5969"},"modified":"2013-09-04T23:28:20","modified_gmt":"2013-09-04T21:28:20","slug":"ut-az-osszeszedettseghez","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/sutismoni.hu\/?p=5969","title":{"rendered":"\u00dat az \u00f6sszeszedetts\u00e9ghez"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Nem vicceltem, \u00e9s nemcsak pillanatnyi fell\u00e1ngol\u00e1s mondatta ki velem a c\u00e9lt a minap, hogy \u00f6sszeszedett leszek.<\/p>\n<p>M\u00e1r tanulm\u00e1nyozom a szakirodalmat,\u00a0 \u00e9s r\u00e1leltem a gyenge pontjaimra, \u00fagyhogy \u0151szint\u00e9n hiszem, hogy ha kicsit k\u00e9s\u0151n is, de meg\u00e9rek \u00e9n m\u00e9g a p\u00f6pec h\u00e1ztart\u00e1svezet\u00e9sre.<a href=\"https:\/\/maimoni.cafeblog.hu\/files\/2013\/09\/vintagechick1.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-5970\" alt=\"vintagechick1\" src=\"https:\/\/maimoni.cafeblog.hu\/files\/2013\/09\/vintagechick1.jpg\" width=\"413\" height=\"381\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>El\u0151sz\u00f6r is: minden h\u00e1ztart\u00e1st koordin\u00e1l\u00f3 szem\u00e9ly olyan, mint egy kisv\u00e1llalat vezet\u0151je. Ez\u00e9rt, ha h\u00e1ziasszony (net\u00e1n h\u00e1ziember) vagy, \u00fagy tekints magadra, mint egy c\u00e9g \u00fcgyvezet\u0151 igazgat\u00f3j\u00e1ra, hiszen rengeteg feladatot kell \u00f6sszehangolnod, hogy a csal\u00e1d m\u0171k\u00f6dj\u00f6n &#8211; m\u00e9ghozz\u00e1 j\u00f3l. A lak\u00e1s legyen tiszta, a ruh\u00e1k legyenek kimosva, vasalva, gondoskodnod kell az \u00e9tkez\u00e9sekr\u0151l (bev\u00e1s\u00e1rl\u00e1st\u00f3l a f\u0151z\u00e9sig, illetve a romok eltakar\u00edt\u00e1s\u00e1ig), net\u00e1n sof\u0151rk\u00f6dsz, hogy a gyerekek eljussanak a megfelel\u0151 helyekre, munkahelyen is dolgozol, sz\u00fcl\u0151i \u00e9rtekezletre j\u00e1rsz, j\u00e1tszol a gyerekekkel, \u00e9s persze, tal\u00e1n ezzel kellett volna kezdenem, feles\u00e9g vagy, a m\u00e1sik \u00fcgyvezet\u0151 t\u00e1masza&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>Teh\u00e1t, ne legyen senkinek kisebbs\u00e9g\u00e9rz\u00e9se amiatt, hogy \u0151 &#8222;csak otthon van&#8221;, hiszen nem kev\u00e9s feladat ez \u00f6nmag\u00e1ban.<\/p>\n<p>Oda szeretn\u00e9k eljutni ennek a most elkezdett tanul\u00e1si folyamatnak a v\u00e9g\u00e9re, hogy nekem, illetve nektek, kedves olvas\u00f3k, akik velem tartatok, ne jelentsen gondot a h\u00e1ztart\u00e1s, ne a rumli \u00e1lljon nyer\u00e9sre, hanem siker\u00fclj\u00f6n kord\u00e1ban tartani, \u00e9s j\u00f3l \u00fczemeltetni az eg\u00e9sz &#8222;c\u00e9get&#8221;. Legyen t\u00f6bb szabadid\u0151m &#8211; szabadid\u0151nk -, \u00e9s ki tudja, tal\u00e1n majd m\u00e9g \u00f6ssze is j\u00f6v\u00fcnk valami j\u00f3 kis k\u00f6z\u00f6s programra, hm?<\/p>\n<p>Els\u0151k\u00e9nt a feladatokhoz val\u00f3 hozz\u00e1\u00e1ll\u00e1sr\u00f3l szeretn\u00e9k \u00edrni; err\u0151l az egyetemen is tanultunk, egy j\u00f3 vezet\u0151nek hasonl\u00f3an kell m\u00e9rlegelnie l\u00e9p\u00e9seit.<\/p>\n<p><strong>1. Tanulj meg NEMet mondani.<\/strong>\u00c9rdekes, hogy kisgyerekk\u00e9nt az els\u0151k k\u00f6z\u00f6tt tanulja meg ezt a sz\u00f3t az ember &#8211; \u00e9s milyen hat\u00e1rozottan tudj\u00e1k mondani! -, azt\u00e1n feln\u0151tt kor\u00e1ra er\u0151szakot kell vennie mag\u00e1n, hogy alkalmazza. B\u00e1rmennyire is sz\u00edvesen seg\u00edt\u00fcnk bar\u00e1tainknak, ismer\u0151seinknek, ha nincs r\u00e1 kapacit\u00e1sunk, meg kell mondani. A saj\u00e1t feladatainkat is oszt\u00e1lyoznunk kell: ha t\u00fal sok az elv\u00e9gzend\u0151 munka, rangsoroljuk \u0151ket, melyik fontos \u00e9s s\u00fcrg\u0151s, melyik fontos, de nem s\u00fcrg\u0151s,s\u00fcrg\u0151s de nem fontos, illetve nem is fontos, nem is s\u00fcrg\u0151s &#8211; ahogy err\u0151l az <a href=\"https:\/\/maimoni.cafeblog.hu\/2012\/09\/29\/idogazdalkodas\/\">Id\u0151gazd\u00e1lkod\u00e1s<\/a> c\u00edm\u0171 posztban \u00edrtam. Ne akarjunk 30 \u00f3r\u00e1nyi munk\u00e1t beleszuszakolni egyetlen napba &#8211; mindig frusztr\u00e1ltak \u00e9s el\u00e9gedetlenek lesz\u00fcnk.<\/p>\n<p><strong>2. Add \u00e1t a feladatot.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Erre a szaksz\u00f3 a deleg\u00e1l\u00e1s. \u00d3ri\u00e1si hib\u00e1nak tartom, ha egy csal\u00e1dban a gyerekek nem kapnak r\u00e9szt a munk\u00e1b\u00f3l. Ha mindent anya meg apa v\u00e9gez el az\u00e9rt, hogy szeg\u00e9ny gyerek hadd tanuljon- szeg\u00e9ny gyerek nagyon fontos dolgokat nem tanul meg pont: p\u00e9ld\u00e1ul azt, hogy a csal\u00e1dban mindenkinek van felel\u0151ss\u00e9ge az otthon\u00e9rt, a &#8222;k\u00f6z&#8221;-\u00e9rt, hogy milyen a csapatmunka, hogyan kell egy\u00fctt dolgozni m\u00e1sokkal, kitart\u00e1st a feladat v\u00e9grehajt\u00e1s\u00e1ban, na meg persze k\u00f6zben tud\u00e1st szerez olyan konkr\u00e9t m\u0171veletekben, mint a takar\u00edt\u00e1s, vagy ak\u00e1r a f\u0151z\u00e9s. Ha pedig erre megtan\u00edtjuk ut\u00f3dainkat, leend\u0151 h\u00e1zast\u00e1rsuk h\u00e1l\u00e1s lesz majd \u00e9rte&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>Err\u0151l jut eszembe, nemr\u00e9g hallgattam egy gyereknevel\u00e9ssel kapcsolatos el\u0151ad\u00e1st, ahol az el\u0151ad\u00f3 r\u00e1mutatott arra, hogy mi, sz\u00fcl\u0151k arra nevelj\u00fck a gyerekeinket, hogy egyszer majd csal\u00e1dot alap\u00edtsanak egy t\u00e1rssal, akit jobban fognak szeretni, mint benn\u00fcnket. \u00c9s akkor tett\u00fck j\u00f3l a dolgunkat, ha a v\u00e1lasztottjukat val\u00f3ban el\u00e9nk helyezik majd &#8211; nem vel\u00fcnk besz\u00e9lik meg a probl\u00e9m\u00e1kat, hanem vele, nem nek\u00fcnk \u00fajs\u00e1golj\u00e1k el el\u0151sz\u00f6r az \u00f6r\u00f6m\u00fcket, hanem neki. Els\u0151 hall\u00e1sra furcsa, nem? De igaz&#8230;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Nem vicceltem, \u00e9s nemcsak pillanatnyi fell\u00e1ngol\u00e1s mondatta ki velem a c\u00e9lt a minap, hogy \u00f6sszeszedett leszek. 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