{"id":7766,"date":"2014-02-28T00:47:56","date_gmt":"2014-02-27T23:47:56","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/maimoni.cafeblog.hu\/?p=7766"},"modified":"2014-02-28T00:47:56","modified_gmt":"2014-02-27T23:47:56","slug":"elengedes","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/sutismoni.hu\/?p=7766","title":{"rendered":"Elenged\u00e9s"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Nos, amikor egy m\u00e1sik v\u00e1ros k\u00e1v\u00e9z\u00f3j\u00e1ban egyszer csak szemben tal\u00e1lom magam a saj\u00e1t s\u00fctem\u00e9nyemmel, az nagyon fura \u00e9rz\u00e9s. El\u0151sz\u00f6r j\u00f6n a r\u00e1csod\u00e1lkoz\u00e1s, hogy j\u00e9, biztosan te vagy az? De igen, az eny\u00e9m, \u00e9n tal\u00e1ltam ki, pont olyan, ahogy le\u00edrtam, valaki elk\u00e9sz\u00edtette, \u00e9s most \u00e1rulja.<\/p>\n<p>Ak\u00e1r b\u00fcszke is lehetn\u00e9k&#8230; de m\u00e9gis, ink\u00e1bb \u00fagy \u00e9rzem, hogy a csud\u00e1ba, legal\u00e1bb sz\u00f3lhatott volna az illet\u0151, hogy hell\u00f3, tetszenek ezek a s\u00fctik, vittem a receptet, k\u00f6szi.<\/p>\n<p>Olyan, mintha a gyerekemet valami furcsa helyen l\u00e1tn\u00e1m meg, ahova nem \u00e9n engedtem el, \u00e9s csak csod\u00e1lkozom, hogy ker\u00fclsz te ide?<\/p>\n<p>\u00c9s m\u00e1ris itt vagyunk a m\u00e1sik dilemm\u00e1n\u00e1l, ami a napokban foglalkoztat, \u00e9s ami el\u0151bb-ut\u00f3bb minden csal\u00e1dban jelentkezik: az &#8222;ott aludhatok&#8230;?&#8221; k\u00e9rd\u00e9se.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/maimoni.cafeblog.hu\/files\/2014\/02\/slumberparty-jumping.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-7773\" alt=\"slumberparty-jumping\" src=\"https:\/\/maimoni.cafeblog.hu\/files\/2014\/02\/slumberparty-jumping.jpg\" width=\"480\" height=\"364\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>Eml\u00e9kszem, amikor a nagyobbik l\u00e1nyom volt cirka t\u00edz\u00e9ves, egyik oszt\u00e1lyt\u00e1rsn\u0151je megh\u00edvta mag\u00e1hoz p\u00e9ntek este, \u00fagy, hogy ott is aludjon. Nehezen, de beleegyezt\u00fcnk. \u00c9s onnant\u00f3l kezdve, hogy a gyerek elment d\u00e9lut\u00e1n, csak n\u0151tt benn\u00fcnk a nyugtalans\u00e1g. A sz\u00fcl\u0151ket tulajdonk\u00e9ppen csak l\u00e1t\u00e1sb\u00f3l, sz\u00fcl\u0151i \u00e9rtekezletekr\u0151l ismert\u00fck. Azt sem tudjuk, hogyan \u00e9lnek &#8211; tudatosult benn\u00fcnk. Mit n\u00e9znek a t\u00e9v\u00e9ben? Mit l\u00e1that, hallhat a gyerek? Mi van, ha isznak? Mi van, ha menetrend-szer\u0171en ord\u00edtoznak egym\u00e1ssal? Mi van, ha csup\u00e1n v\u00e9letlen\u00fcl, de a gyerek olyan s\u00e9r\u00fcl\u00e9st szenved (lelki, de ak\u00e1r fizikai \u00e9rtelemben is), ami az eg\u00e9sz \u00e9let\u00e9re kihat? Mi van, ha&#8230;?<\/p>\n<p>Kiss\u00e9 szem\u00e9t cselhez folyamodtam: tudtam, ha felh\u00edvom a l\u00e1nyomat, csak olyan esti &#8222;mi \u00fajs\u00e1g&#8221;-telefonnal, felt\u00e1mad benne a honv\u00e1gy, \u00e9s haza akar majd j\u00f6nni. \u00cdgy is lett. Futottunk \u00e9rte.\u00a0 Nagy k\u0151 esett le a sz\u00edv\u00fcnkr\u0151l, \u00e9s tudtuk, lehetnek a sz\u00fcl\u0151t\u00e1rsak b\u00e1rmilyen j\u00f3 fejek, a l\u00e1nyunknak otthon van a legjobb helye.<\/p>\n<p>Most a kisebbik l\u00e1nyunkn\u00e1l, szint\u00e9n t\u00edz\u00e9vesen, jelentkezett ugyanez a k\u00e9rd\u00e9s. Nagyj\u00e1b\u00f3l ismeretlen iskolai sz\u00fcl\u0151t\u00e1rs (igaz, legjobb bar\u00e1tn\u0151, de az \u0151 t\u00e1vol \u00e9l\u0151 apuk\u00e1ja) l\u00e1tn\u00e1 vend\u00e9g\u00fcl, \u00e9s ugyanaz az \u00e9rz\u00e9s er\u0151s\u00f6dik benn\u00fcnk: nem. Krokodilk\u00f6nnyek, b\u00e1nat k\u00eds\u00e9rik a d\u00f6nt\u00e9s\u00fcnket, de meg vagyok arr\u00f3l gy\u0151z\u0151dve, hogy \u00edgy helyes.<\/p>\n<p>Eszembe jutott egy ismer\u0151s\u00f6m, aki az aut\u00f3j\u00e1t senkinek sem adta oda, semmilyen esetben sem, \u00e1m a feles\u00e9g\u00e9t \u00e9s a gyerek\u00e9t b\u00e1rkivel fuvaroztatta, ha \u0151 nem \u00e9rt r\u00e1. Nem furcsa? Szerintem nagyon. Az \u00e9rt\u00e9krend\u00fcnk nem egyezik, az biztos. Tal\u00e1n ezt az eg\u00e9sz ottalv\u00f3s k\u00e9rd\u00e9st is \u00edgy c\u00e9lszer\u0171 megk\u00f6zel\u00edteni: odaadn\u00e1d a kocsidat annak a sz\u00fcl\u0151nek, aki a gyerekedet l\u00e1tn\u00e1 vend\u00e9g\u00fcl? Ha nem, akkor a fiadat\/l\u00e1nyodat mi\u00e9rt?<\/p>\n<p>Mi a v\u00e9lem\u00e9nyetek?<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Nos, amikor egy m\u00e1sik v\u00e1ros k\u00e1v\u00e9z\u00f3j\u00e1ban egyszer csak szemben tal\u00e1lom magam a saj\u00e1t s\u00fctem\u00e9nyemmel, az nagyon fura \u00e9rz\u00e9s. El\u0151sz\u00f6r j\u00f6n a r\u00e1csod\u00e1lkoz\u00e1s, hogy j\u00e9, biztosan te vagy az? 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