{"id":891,"date":"2012-05-29T15:26:00","date_gmt":"2012-05-29T13:26:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/maimoni.cafeblog.hu\/2012\/05\/29\/a-gyerek-megleckeztetett\/"},"modified":"2012-05-29T15:26:00","modified_gmt":"2012-05-29T13:26:00","slug":"a-gyerek-megleckeztetett","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/sutismoni.hu\/?p=891","title":{"rendered":"A gyerek megleck\u00e9ztetett"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>M\u00e1rciusban mes\u00e9ltem nektek<a href=\"http:\/\/www.maimoni.hu\/2012\/03\/felveteli.html\"> B\u00e1lint felv\u00e9telij\u00e9r\u0151l,<\/a> arr\u00f3l, hogy nem siker\u00fclt oda beker\u00fclnie, ahova szeretett volna, oda viszont igen, ahova \u00e9n j\u00f3nak l\u00e1ttam.<br \/>Azt is \u00edrtam, hogy egy\u00e1ltal\u00e1n nem akartam fellebbezni, protekci\u00f3t felhajtani meg pl\u00e1ne nem, ker\u00fclj\u00f6n csak oda, ahova siker\u00fclt, j\u00f3 lesz az.<br \/>\u00c1m a gyerek k\u00f6ny\u00f6r\u00f6gni kezdett nekem az\u00e9rt, hogy \u00edrjak fellebbez\u00e9st. M\u00e9rlegeltem, \u00e9s \u00fagy d\u00f6nt\u00f6ttem, megteszem neki az\u00e9rt, hogy feln\u0151tt kor\u00e1ban ne v\u00e1ghassa a fejemhez, hogy miattam nem j\u00e1rhatott a gimn\u00e1ziumba, angol szakra. Olyan fellebbez\u00e9st \u00edrtam, amiben k\u00e9t rendk\u00edv\u00fcl gyenge \u00e9rvet siker\u00fclt felmutatnom, s\u0151t, a v\u00e9g\u00e9re oda is \u00edrtam, hogy tudom, nem ezek a leg\u00fct\u0151sebb indokok, de az\u00e9rt b\u00edzom k\u00e9relmem pozit\u00edv elb\u00edr\u00e1l\u00e1s\u00e1ban.<br \/>Na, a levelet elk\u00fcldtem, B\u00e1lint m\u00e1r h\u00e1rom nap m\u00falva n\u00e9zegetni kezdte a postal\u00e1d\u00e1t, \u00f3, mondtam neki, az m\u00e9g nagyon korai, majd valamikor m\u00e1jus v\u00e9g\u00e9n. Valah\u00e1nyszor sz\u00f3ba ker\u00fclt a t\u00e9ma, igyekeztem r\u00e1vezetni, hogy ne b\u00edzzon t\u00fals\u00e1gosan a sikerben, mert minim\u00e1lis az es\u00e9ly, hogy felvegy\u00e9k; nincs protekci\u00f3nk.<br \/>Legut\u00f3bb tegnapel\u0151tt hoztam sz\u00f3ba a dolgot.<br \/>&#8211; B\u00e1lintk\u00e1m, fel vagy arra k\u00e9sz\u00fclve, hogy ha nem vesznek fel a gimibe, a K\u00f6zg\u00e1zba fogsz j\u00e1rni?<br \/>&#8211; Fel, anya.<br \/>&#8211; El tudod fogadni?<br \/>&#8211; El. De \u00e9n minden nap im\u00e1dkoztam az\u00e9rt, hogy felvegyenek. \u00c9s fel fognak venni, tudom.<br \/>&#8211; Ok\u00e9, csak van \u00fagy n\u00e9ha, hogy az im\u00e1ra nem az a v\u00e1lasz j\u00f6n, amit az ember szeretne. Azt\u00e1n k\u00e9s\u0151bb, sokszor csak sokkal k\u00e9s\u0151bb kider\u00fcl, hogy jobb is volt, hogy m\u00e1sk\u00e9pp t\u00f6rt\u00e9nt, nem \u00fagy, ahogy elk\u00e9pzelted.<br \/>&#8211; Rendben, anya &#8211; mondta a gyermek, aki mostan\u00e1ban idej\u00e9nek j\u00f3r\u00e9sz\u00e9t azzal t\u00f6lti, hogy az idegeinkre pr\u00f3b\u00e1l menni. Kamaszodik rendesen, azt az \u00e9des kisfi\u00fat m\u00e1r csak nyomokban lehet felfedezni benne, aki egyszer nekem reggeli k\u00f6zben mes\u00e9lte, hogy \u00e1lm\u00e1ban odament hozz\u00e1 J\u00e9zus, \u00e9s azt mondta neki, hogy b\u00e1tran im\u00e1dkozzon, \u00e9s k\u00e9rjen t\u0151le, mert mindig meghallgatja. H\u00e1t, gondoltam most, e besz\u00e9lget\u00e9s\u00fcnk v\u00e9g\u00e9n, legyen neked a te hited szerint&#8230;<br \/>\u00c9s mit ad Isten, ma \u00e9rkezett egy t\u00e9rtivev\u00e9nyes lev\u00e9l, amelyben \u00e9rtes\u00edtenek, hogy B\u00e1lint fiamat felvett\u00e9k a gimn\u00e1zium emelt szint\u0171 angol nyelvi f\u00e9l oszt\u00e1ly\u00e1ba. Ez ellen azt\u00e1n m\u00e1r nem is fellebbezhetek.<br \/>Le voltam d\u00f6bbenve.<br \/>&#8211; L\u00e1tod, B\u00e1lint, pedig nem is volt protekci\u00f3d&#8230; &#8211; mondtam, majd helyesb\u00edtettem: &#8211; Vagyis, ha jobban meggondoljuk, a legnagyobb protekci\u00f3d volt, ami embernek lehet.<\/p>\n<p>Sz\u00f3val, a gyerek leck\u00e9t adott nekem. Arr\u00f3l, hogy nincs rem\u00e9nytelen helyzet. \u00c9s ha hiszek valamiben, akkor nem k\u00e9telkedem. Ha nem k\u00e9telkedem, akkor az meglesz. 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